I gently lifted his hand off the massage table and placed it in both of mine. I felt tears start to swell inside me. His hands were those of my father's. I mean the same size, the same muscular and bone structure, his skin was smooth yet aging with the same strawberry blond hair on the back of his hand and knuckles of his fingers. I wanted to just stare at his hands but instead found myself massaging the inside of them in the same way my father did to me as a small child to put me to sleep…the same way I lovingly touch and massage my three year-old son's hand to put him to sleep. That is the one thing my son connects deeply with to identify with his grandfather he has never known.
Coffee in hand, quiet house, early morning. The perfect setting to write a mother’s day blog post. I sit and think for a moment, suddenly the words start to flow.
A Return to the Womb
In darkness, infinite possibilities spiral in every direction. Fear. Courage. Curiosity.
From the safety and warmth of the womb, we emerge into the unknown.
As soon as I think I’ve found my direction, I hear a little voice call, “mama?” from the back of the house.
Once a month, Still Point Wellness massage therapists, front desk staff, spa management, and co-owners gather to deepen our connection with one another through discussion. Over the past few months we've been exploring our core values. What are they? How do we define them? What do they look like in action? This month, we talked about mindfulness.
I’d taken the first step, and like they say, the first step is always the hardest, right? Actually, showing up to what was essentially the unknown was a far harder step. Before I knew it, I was entering the pool of darkness for one hour. The door shut behind me, and then there was nothing.
Mother Nature is our greatest teacher and physician producing an array of natural medicines that support healing and inner transformation. Some of Her greatest gifts to humanity come from the plant kingdom, a domain that offers many remedies to nourish our body and mind and soothe what ails our soul. One of the many blessings that arise from these botanicals is the flowers, and from these blossoms flower essences are created.
This article originally appeared in the Florida State Massage Therapy Magazine, Massage Message.
Imagine yourself sitting on the cliffs of the Santa Lucia Mountain range in Big Sur, California looking out at the Pacific Ocean. You hear the crash of the ocean waves below and a sea otter as it floats on its back cracking shells. You see an occasional condor soaring above. The sun is shining, the air is filled with the smell of sea water and sulphur from the hot springs. The hot water bubbles up from under the earth and pours into the large bath tubs.
People from all over the world, and all walks of life, gather to bathe in these pools of healing waters and experience the beauty of nature and the magic of the place. This sacred ground, the Esalen Institute, once home to the Esselen Indians, is the birthplace of Esalen massage.
Eddie - The theme this week is The Power of Mindful Touch. Perhaps you could give us an idea of what we might be talking about this evening.
Robin - Thanks for asking Eddie. I suppose over my lifetime, really since I was a child, I’ve been really interested in touch and present touch and I’ve spent most of my life I would say dedicated to that exploration. I spent many years at the Esalen Institute practicing and learning different types of bodywork and massage as well and I’m looking forward to talking about my experiences over all these years.
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Eddie: So the theme this week that we are going to talk about, and I have to hand it to you Corey, you came up with the longest theme of any, and I love it.
Bring creative sounds like a lot of work. Keep in mind I’m an artist. I am also one who likes to plan, to strategize, and organize (read: INTJ Capricorn). Lets just say my passion and personality haven’t always seamlessly merged. I’ve always felt stuck in my head, trapped in an over-analytical mindset. Thinking and over-thinking everything, especially creative projects, can be torture.
Mindfulness meditation is a research-validated method of reducing stress, coping with pain and illness, enhancing wellness, and increasing self-awareness and compassion. Mindfulness is an essential skill that can be learned as a formal meditation practice and as a natural way of peacefully relating to our mind, body, emotions, and the people and situations we encounter in everyday life. The following article addresses how mindfulness can support health, wellness, and the quality of our relationships.